Beating Your Critics To The Punch
Sunday, April 27th, 2008Sometimes it’s a good idea to own up to a really bad mistake before your critics can point it out for you.
Like Denver Nuggets forward Carmelo Anthony’s assessment of his team’s embarrassing 102-84 loss Saturday to go 0-3 in their NBA playoff series with the Los Angeles Lakers: “We quit. Everybody. From the coaches to the players, we quit. And I said it.”
Anthony’s criticism of his team worked because it was undeniable and because he included himself: “I’m not blaming anyone. I’m not pointing the fingers at nobody. I didn’t play worth a damn . . . and I can accept that. But as a competitor, there’s no way that I should lay down and quit and lay down on my team like we did tonight . . . We all just gave up.’’
Contrast that with teammate Allen Iverson’s complaint about being pulled from the game early: “To not go back in, I don’t understand that. And (Coach George Karl) didn’t even say nothing to me even afterward . . . I played every game with a broken finger and all. I always came to play, every game we had. So why not tell me nothing?’’
Unlike Anthony, Iverson pointed the public finger of blame at his coach while ignoring his own lousy performance during the game. Iverson’s lucky that Anthony’s quotes got top billing in the media. His comment was divisive and made him look like a whiner. It would not have played well as the lead of the stories about the Nuggets loss.
Here’s the lesson for the rest of us. If you screw up in a way you know will be noticed (and sometimes when it wouldn’t be noticed), your best PR strategy may be to own up to it yourself before you critics do it for you. And almost always, pointing the finger of blame at yourself when it’s deserved will serve you better than trying to find someone else to pin the blame on.
That’s my two cents’ worth. What’s yours?
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